Planned Teaching

                     Boys Town Social Skill Lesson Plan

                             How to Make a Request

 
   
Introduce Skill What is a request?  What kinds of things do we request?
What? Have you requested anything today?  What was it?
When? When do we make a request?  (When we need or want
Who? something)  We make requests of parents, teachers, friends,
  brothers, sisters.  Who else?  
     
Describe Skill Steps 1. Look at the person.  
  2. Use a pleasant voice tone.  
  3. State request specifically.  
  4. Say "Please"  
  5. Say "Thank You" after request is granted.  
     
Rationale When you make a request, following the 5 steps we just
Benefit discussed will encourage the person you asked to say
Neg. Consequence "yes" to your request.  He may also trust that you can handle
Concern yourself  
     
Request for Acknowledgment Does this make sense to everyone?  Will someone repeat the 5
   steps for making a request, please?  
     
Practice 1. Have the class brainstorm ideas for a class bulletin board or
  collage showing the skill How to Make a Request.
  2. Discuss the materials needed and organize preparation.
  3. Have students form groups to put together the bulletin board/
  collage showing the skill How to Make a Request.
  4. Ask for volunteers to explain bulletin board and go over
  the five steps of How to Make a Request.  
     
Feedback You did a great job showing the steps of How to Make a
  Request I saw you looking at the person and smiling.  You used
  a pleasant voice tone when you made your request.  Also,
  you said "Please" and "Thank you."  
     
Positive Because you have all cooperated and worked so well together
Consequence practicing How to Make a Request, you may have 10 minutes
  to chat with your friends quietly.  Good Job!
     
Follow-Up Practice Tomorrow, let's invite Mrs. Jones' class to our room and show them
  what we know about making a request.  Let's encourage the
  entire 2nd grade to make a collage on our big wall showing How
  to Make a Request.