Planned Teaching Boys Town Social Skill Lesson Plan Making a Request |
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Introduce Skill | What is a request? | |
What? | What kinds of things do we request? | |
When? | When do we make requests? What was your last request? | |
Who? | From who do we request things? | |
Describe Skill Steps | 1. Look at the person | |
2. Use a clear, pleasant voice. | ||
3. Explain exactly what you are asking for. Say "please." | ||
4. If the answer is "Yes," say "Thank you." | ||
5. If not, remember to accept "No" for an answer. | ||
Rationale | When you make a request, following these five steps may | |
Benefit | encourage the person you asked to say 'yes' to your request. | |
Neg. Consequence | He/She may trust that you can handle yourself in an appropriate | |
Concern | manner when asking for something. | |
Request for Acknowledgment | Repeat the steps. Does this make sense? | |
Practice | Role play incorrect ways of making a request. Brainstorm/discuss | |
what needs to be changed in the role play. Role play correct | ||
ways of making a request, use the suggestions from the class. | ||
Feedback | You did a great job of practicing "Making a Request!" | |
(Praise specific steps followed and give specific feedback for | ||
areas of improvement. | ||
Positive | Because you practiced so well, you have earned 10 minutes of | |
Consequence | extra free time. (Or other positive consequences that are | |
appropriate for the time like penny candy or playing a game.) | ||
Follow-Up Practice | Let the class know that you will be observing the class to "catch | |
them" using the skill "Making a Request." Continue to praise | ||
correct use of the skill and re-teach as needed. |